let it go.

if someone asked me what the most important thing i've learned in my life was. 

it would be this. 

because obviously, people are going to say some things that they don't really mean. but don't let it get to you. who cares what they think, you know who you really are. 

you're going to do some things that you wish you wouldn't have. i told a boy i loved him when really i didn't know love. it's the one thing in my life i regret doing. and i hate admitting that i did. i can't take it back.. but oh well. life goes on. i learned it's not a term to be used loosely.. 

things are going to be said about you, that are going to hurt. but you have to get over it. maybe they didn't mean what they said, maybe they did. but learn to forgive, we all make mistakes. 

your secrets might get told, and you might lose trust. even if you don't trust them again, you can still be their friend and act like nothing happened. 

you're going to fall for someone, who might not feel the same. you don't have to give up.. just don't dwell on it. it's hard. i know. but continue living your life to the fullest and be open to other possibilities. 

relationships are going to end. and things will be awkward. pretend nothing happened, get past the awkward. and stay friends.

there's to much happening in the present to be getting caught in the past. 

learn from your mistakes and move on. 

let go, and live(: